Aaron Doughty on Instagram: "The moment you don’t care whether that ex comes back or not, you really don’t care… And even if you’ve concluded that they’re not your person, that’s when they’re most likely to come back But the thing for you to understand is that that person was representative of a certain pattern You can take out the personalization of it and realize that when you let go, you give them the space to heal and maybe miss you But more importantly, you give yourself the space to heal a